Thursday, August 28, 2014

Have Some Self-Respect Ladies..


I'm going to try to say this in the nicest way I can possibly think of. Ladies.. you really need to re-evaluate your outfit choices. It legit looks like you have some serious daddy issues with the wardrobe you pick out to go in public in. There's a difference with going to a concert or a club and going to the mall to go shopping with your friends. It's not a matter of being confident in your body because if you were that confident you wouldn't have to wear the least amount of clothes possible. My parents raised me with more self-respect then to be showing crazy amounts of skin like that and if you're young and your parents don't know how you're dressing for school then that's such a shame. Have more class and love for your body.

It's becoming way too frequent that I see young girls wearing high-waisted shorts that cover their asses no more than a thong would. And they pair it with the shortest/smallest crop top possible. If you're going to do that at least wear a kimono or a long cardigan. Something to make up for the amount of skin you're showing. There's dressing in a tasteful way then there's trashy...For instance, my cousin and I went to the mall to do a little shopping before she went to England and we saw this girl wearing the smallest high waisted shorts and this creepy old guy was staring at her ass. Like you're in a mall with families and young children... please cover your junk, it's very tacky.

I taught my boyfriend about girls whether they're being "fashion" or "slutty" and now when he goes out he realizes how many girls are trying to make "outfits" just to grab guys attention. News flash girls, not a lot of guys are willing to go after girls that just show every inch of skin possible by just taking a glance at you. They want mystery and they can't get that if you're an open book without them even talking to you once. And if they are that type of guy..then sorry to sound cliche..but they only want one thing and it's not love, marriage and most certainly not a future with you honey.

Too many girls say "all guys are the same.. all douchebags".. have you ever realized that maybe it is you and how much you're acting basic and upfront with your clothing and attitude? Every guy treats you the same because they can abuse the way you dress and act. And if you think about coming at me with the whole "guys shouldn't be dogs and girls should be able to walk to streets without having guys stare at them like a piece of meat"... if you dangle a piece of meat in front of a dog... he's gunna stare girls. Cover your meat in a tasteful yet sexy way, that way he's forced to talk with you and get to know you on a deeper level. Instead of showing him everything ..he'll get bored with you really quickly.



There are so many ways to make it look sexy, appealing and classy without showing a whole deal of skin. If you had any self- respect, once you tried on those shorts and they showed any bit of ass.. you would either get a bigger size or look for ones that roll up like this one.. or just ones that fit.                ----------->






When you're at a concert or a rave or anything like that where you're just out there to have fun and not find your future hubby, then I say screw it dress like a slut. Wear those high waisted shorts that make you feel good and hot. Like I said you're not going to find a future with anyone there... I feel embarrassed for the girl in this picture that I found on Google, but I know if I was her father I would not want to see my daughter wearing this little clothing. It's not attractive, it's quite disgusting that you think that's actually a cute outfit.



But if you have class and want to stay tasteful, take the Vanessa Hudgen's route

 






 <-This is sexy and fashionable.

















This is classy and different, very chic->


 




Cover it up with a cardigan! or a long pretty shirt!















<- DON'T show up to your cousins 6th birthday party looking like this!

If you show up anywhere like this people will think you just had sex with a stranger on the street... aka prostitue...












<- this shit looks painted on her skin. Def will attract the wrong kind of guy and shows you have no fashion sense or self- respect.

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