Love Hath No Boundaries

Next topic on my list was relationships. Meaning whether it be between two males, two females or one man one woman. But I felt like something was missing, so I decided to combine "sexuality" with this one. 

     2. Sexuality& Being In Love

• Sexuality is being who you feel like you were meant to be. If you grow up to feel unhappy with who you are and you realize you are happiest when you're with someone as the same gender as you are, then do it. You have no set definition to who you are or can be. Feel free to change it to what makes you happy; love yourself for who you are.
• Being in love with someone, having that one person you can love unconditionally and can make each other endlessly happy. Love doesn't have a specific age, race, gender. As long as you're truly in love, (and I'm not talking about the teenage fan girl that's in love with One Direction) I'm talking about the kind of love that involves two people that specifically care deeply for one another.

   Honestly, to me, as long as you're happy in the relationship you're in nothing should matter, and if you're thinking what if a 16 year old "loves" a 25 year old? Get out, because you're minds not thinking about the real situation here. I'm talking about two "legally aged" people.. is that better? If you are a female that likes another female, go for it. If you're a male that loves another male, cheers to you. Be with someone that loves and accepts you for you. Just because the person you love is the same gender as you are, it doesn't mean God loves you less if that's what you're worrying about. Every time I look on tumblr, youtube or any other social network, I see the people that are major homophobes raging, gays and lesbians are going to go to hell. Honestly guys? I know young teenagers are usually the ones to protest this kind of love, because that's what their parents raised them to believe. But they're wrong. I don't know how else to say it. God loves you, no matter what gender or sexuality you choose to love. He loves everyone no matter the circumstances, so let those people be happy with whom they choose to love.

   You are who you choose to be. Make decisions that'll make you happy, because in the end that's all that matters.

     If you ever watched the show, "Real Housewives of New Jersey" and you've seen the episode where Rosie (Kathy's sister) explains to Kathy's kids about her sexuality. I remembered her words and they forever are imprinted in my brain. She said, "I didn't wake up one morning and say, 'I'm gunna do this 'cause it's cool.' No it's something you were born with. God made me this way."

Here's the link for the episode I'm referring to. -> Rosie Comes Out to the Kids

 

   Ever since I saw that episode, not only did I cry because you can tell the pain in Rosie's eyes as she explains it to Kathy's kids, but it also opened my eyes tremendously. I gained an immense amount of respect for Rosie after I watched that and I started to preach to everyone that was against people who are "different". Who are you to judge someone based on gender? You are not God so why do you feel it is necessary to criticize what these people can and cannot do, love and cannot love? You don't understand half the struggle they went through. So next time you (all you haters of gay/lesbian people) deem it necessary to make fun of or bully or critique someone based on who they are, you should be ashamed of yourself. Have a heart and let those people be happy. My mom always taught me, "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say it at all." And if your parents never taught you that growing up, then you have a lot of homework to catch up on sweetie. Be more respectful and if you have a problem with it, just let it go because in the end, it's not your life, it's their. So let them be happy.. they deserve it.

 

   Love who you want to love and be who you want to be. Don't ever let anyone tell you, you cant do something. Never be afraid to just be yourself. I love everyone and if anyone needs to talk about these matters, inbox me on any of my social networking sites.